When We Slip–Compassion for the Process

I've been doing something that I don't normally do today--I've been staring at the screen.  I haven't been able to focus on my writing or my to-do list.  This isn't just about today--I've been off my game for at least a week or so.  I notice it in snappishness at home, or in a larger volume of negative thoughts.  I have been trying to herd … [Read more...]

Mid-Week Balance: 5 September 2012

Hello all.  I hope this edition of MWB finds you more rested than I am.  I had a wonderful family party over the long weekend.  Lots of connecting and laughing.  Not so much sleeping.  So, my spirit is recharged, but my body is a bit worn down.  Perhaps that is why I found myself so drawn to mentally restful posts this week.  This round-up … [Read more...]

Self-Compassion–An Exercise in Freedom

Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It's a relationship between equals. Only when we know our own darkness well can we be present with the darkness of others. Compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared humanity.--Pema Chödrön If you are a regular reader, you'll notice that this blog is not quite in it's … [Read more...]

You Deserve Self-Care

Does this sound familiar to you?  You worked really hard, and you began to exercise regularly, and it felt great.  Or, you put in a lot of time, and ate in ways that respected your body, and it felt great.  Or, you really invested in building some good relationships, and you had a solid circle of friends, and it felt great. But … [Read more...]