I would never have described myself as someone who was a “techie.” I was a late arrival on Facebook. I only got a Twitter account so that I could use it for work. I held out from getting a smart phone for a looong time. In fact, it’s been barely a year since I
caved joined the twenty-first century. Now that I have one, I am very accustomed to it. I glance at it at least once an hour during the day to check email or pop in on Twitter. I’m online a lot–writing this blog, sharing research on Twitter, looking at my cousin’s kids on Facebook.
Last week, I forgot my phone. It was amazing to me how much I got done during the day, how focused my brain was, how much more quickly I got my notes done. It was also revealing that my initial reaction to not having it was a burst of anxiety. I realized that, as much as I like to think about technology as something that affects other people, I am pretty influenced by it myself.
Since then, I have read Jonathan Field’s thoughtful article about the ways that we allow our technology to take over family or friend time. I have read multiple articles like this one from the American Psychological Association that talk about how our technology has made it difficult to separate work and home. I have been thinking a lot about the costs of being distracted. And I have paid attention, both to my own behavior and to the things I am hearing from my patients about technology in their lives.
What I’m Hearing
Here’s a sample of what I’m hearing. As you read these statements, I’m challenging you to see if you can hear yourself.
- I don’t even realize when I’m checking my phone.
- My iPad goes with me everywhere.
- I’m anxious if I can’t check my email (check in on Twitter, Facebook, etc.).
- I don’t have downtime to just think or check in with myself.
- I am always connected.
That’s just a few. Are you in there anywhere? If so, I am inviting you to think about your own technology pause.
An Intentional Pause
I think that there are lots of amazing things that we can do with technology right now. We can get informed, connected, entertained, distracted, inspired . . . the list is endless. And many of those things are good stuff. Obviously, I believe in the benefits of technology, or I wouldn’t be writing these posts.
But I also believe that we don’t fully understand the impact or costs of technology yet. And I believe that our smartphones and tablets are pretty seductive–they invite us to be plugged in and distracted. Since my accidental pause, I have been trying to carve out time every day when I’m unplugged. Sometimes that means that I’m out for a walk without any technology to distract me from what I’m seeing and hearing and smelling. Sometimes that means that I turn off the laptop in the evenings to be more present. It’s not always a huge chunk of time. But I’m doing it every day. And I am much more aware of the impact of technology. Now I’m using it by choice and not by habit. And that’s what I’m inviting you to do. You’re the author of your own pauses. Create them in whatever way is most meaningful to you. But I’d love to hear what your pauses look and feel like.
And if you want suggestions for a more “full-immersion” pause, you can check out this description of the “Screen-Free Week” campaign.
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